In principle, you're not against serious relationships, but there is still some uncertainty in yourself and your prospective partner. Perhaps at heart you try to gear yourself up that you'll be able to reconcile with other people's shortcomings, learn to be patient and get married, but there is no certainty in you yet and is not expected. Guys feel your ambiguous position and unwillingness to be bound with obligations. The main thing is to be honest and not to make promises that you can't keep.More »